If he cannt tell u how he feels about you, its the same as walking into a dark place w/o knowin which way to go?
What if there is a pit in front of u? Y put yourself in danger?
If he have feelings for u.. he will automatically show it to u.. he will care and concern abt u..
wanna noe how u have been.. miss having u ard..
Most important, he would nt let u suffer by playing guessing games.
The ONE for u....
is meeting the right person at the right time & place?
u sure he is what u wan? or is it juz a fling?
sorrie that i use "fling" this word.. it may be a bit insulting to u & his feelings..
Don't tie urself down by defining that he is the one for u... truth may awfully disappoint u when u get to know him more. Moreover, ppl do change.. ur taste, his personality.
So when he/ you change? can u still accept him as he is? is he still the ONE for u?
Distant r/s is nt easy to maintain, requires a lot effort to be put in...
I guess u noe it more den anybody does, my dear, i don't want u to go through all that again..
What if the same thing happen? Y make ur heart shatter again when u juz started to heal..
Sorry that it sounds like i am discouraging u....
but hope that it would talk sense into u.. & prevent u from being too emotional to rush into things...

BUT still, I would still support ur decisions..even if u wanna go to his side... even if it sounds foolish.. (a bit contradict myself (>_<) haha!!) ALL ur decisions made, I only hope that u will be blessed with happiness....